When someone describes how you make them feel when you're around them and it's not the way you ever intended to make anyone feel, how do you take that?
I would say if you have any ambitions to be a leader or even a well rounded person; listen to what people have to say about you. No, they're not always right, and you don't always have to change yourself based on their opinion, but if more than one person has the same opinion than them, consider how it could further you, if you changed.
I don't ever want to come off condescending and intimidating but that's what was described about me, recently. What's worse? That person didn't feel like I was approachable about it because they didn't know how I would take it.
Here's a word for anyone that has something to say to me but is 'intimidated' or 'scared', don't even worry about it. I won't be mad, I won't be hurt or angry. I promise.
I want to be approachable, and honestly? Chances are, you're right, and it's something I'm not seeing about myself and it just takes someone to point it out. I won't be mad or angry, and I want to be the best person I can be, if you can help me with that, then do!
Odds are, I will probably think more highly of you for speaking what's really on your mind about me.
Fb, email, text, call, let me know and don't worry about whether I'd be hurt or mad, life is too short to get hung up on things like that.
My ego can take a bruising every once in awhile. :)
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